Terms & Conditions

  1. All members must be 18 years of age or older.
  2. This site is for private individuals interested in donating or receiving sperm, eggs, embryos, and surrogates only. Use of this site for dating or casual sex is prohibited.
  3. Users are responsible for any and all interaction with any other user, including personal and financial safety.
  4. GoKidu cannot be held responsible for the accuracy of member profiles or the content of member communication and interactions. GoKidu only verifies the identity of the user & it does not screen or verify the information given on any registered member.
  5. **Members are solely and individually responsible for complying with the laws that apply to the country and region in which they live. (Canadian Residents - Read Below)
  6. Each member may have one profile only. If they are removed from the app, it is not allowed to join again using a different alias. Use of multiple profiles for any reason may result in removal from the site.
  7. Profile and gallery images must not contain nudity, portray violence, or violate any copyright laws.
  8. Profile information and images may not misrepresent the member or what they look like. Profile specifics do not have to be entered, but any specific entered must be accurate to the actual member. Members may use a non-human image if they do not wish to use their real photo, but images of models or of someone other than the member are not permitted.
  9. Conflicts of Interest:Members may not use the GoKidu app, profile, or forums to promote any other websites, groups, products, or services without express written permission from the GoKidu administration team prior to posting any information.
    • Members who are administrators or moderators of other donation sites or lists may be removed at any time at the sole discretion of the GoKidu Administrator as is seen in the best interest of the GoKidu community.
  10. *Members may not contact another member for any purpose other than private sperm, egg, surrogate, or embryo donation as stated on that member's profile unless invited by the other member first. This includes (but is not limited to): solicitation for services or products, advertising of any kind, and dating or sexual advances.
  11. Adult Content, Hate Speech, Violence, Illegal Activity: Messages, emails, or profiles containing violent, sexually oriented, or illegal content or links to sites with this content will either be deleted or saved as evidence. Messages with links to or suggesting illegal activity will also be deleted. Posting or linking to any of these could result in a ban.
  12. Defamation /Libel: Users may not post defamatory content (libel) on GoKidu. Libel constitutes a false statement of fact causing harm to the reputation of a person or company without adequate due diligence or research into the truthfulness of the statement. Opinions are not actionable as defamation.
    • GoKidu will remove content if a written request is received from the person or company, or their legal representation, about which such a statement is made that shows 1) it is a false statement or can not be proven and 2) it has damaged their reputation.
    • GoKidu will not remove content that complies with the Terms of Use simply because someone doesn't like it.
    • Requests to remove content must be made under the legal name of the person about which the statement was made.
  13. Report code of conduct violations: All Members are expected to report behaviour that breaks these Terms to the GoKidu Administrators.
  14. Violation of the law: any violation of the law should be immediately reported to the appropriate authorities in your area. GoKidu is not the appropriate place to report crimes. Once a crime has been established through the appropriate authorities, discussion of the crime becomes a statement of fact and is permitted.

    Our Service may contain links to third-party websites or services that are not owned or controlled by GoKidu. GoKidu has no control over, and assumes no responsibility for, the content, privacy policies, or practices of any third-party websites or services. You further acknowledge and agree that GoKidu shall not be responsible or liable, directly or indirectly, for any damage or loss caused or alleged to be caused by or in connection with the use of or reliance on any such content, goods, or services available on or through any such websites or services. We only provide links to external websites as a convenience, and the inclusion of such a link to external websites do not imply our endorsement of those websites. You acknowledge and agree that when you access other websites on the Internet, you do so at your own risk. We strongly advise you to read the terms and conditions and privacy policies of any third-party websites or services that you visit.


    We allow service providers to provide targeted useful information and offer services to help our community. These service providers can track if you have requested more information about their services. Furthermore they can offer their information and services to targeted groups of users based on age, biological profile (Sperm/Egg/Womb/Embryo), and geological location.


    Our primary data centres are in Canada and the United States. If you are from the European Union or other regions with laws governing data collection and use, please be aware that you are agreeing to the transfer of your personal data, including sensitive data, by GoKidu from your region to countries which do not have data protection laws that provide the same level of protection that exists in countries in the European Economic Area, including Australia and the United States. By providing your personal information, you consent to any transfer and processing in accordance with this Policy.

II. Code of Conduct

All Members

  1. Respect the Gokidu Terms of Use: Private message, emails, forum posts, social media posts, threads, and any other member activity associated with GoKidu are bound by these Terms. Members posting about or encouraging others to act outside of these Terms of Use will be moderated and/or banned.
  2. Respect the GoKidu Staff: The GoKidu moderation and administration team is a group of volunteers who give of their time and energy to help make GoKidu a valuable and safe resource for our members. Members are expected to respond to moderation respectfully, and to present any questions or concerns in a calm, constructive manner. If requests cannot be met, members are expected to accept this and maintain positive discourse in the public forums.
  3. Respect each other: All Members are expected to be respectful and considerate in their dealings with each other. The use of foul or sexually provocative language, harassment, or any other behavior that makes the other party uncomfortable is not tolerated.
  4. Politics and Religion: While many of the discussions on sperm donation and conception may revolve around political issues, these discussions should be kept to the limited scope of the individual topic. Everyone has the right to their political or religious opinions, but these two topics can cause serious problems and will be heavily monitored in the forums. Please find another venue to exercise your freedom of speech on these topics.

Donors & Recipients

  1. Donors and Recipients agree by accepting these Terms that they do not use illegal drugs and are free of known sexually transmitted diseases and infection.
  2. Donors will take necessary precautions prior to donating (STD testing) as requested by the recipient and will not knowingly expose Recipients to sexually transmitted diseases or infections.
  3. Recipients engaging in donation that involves sexual contact (NI, partial NI, etc.) will take the necessary precautions prior to receiving sperm (STD testing) as requested by the Donor and will not knowingly expose Donors to sexually transmitted diseases or infections.
  4. Recipients should be prepared to cover the cost of STD testing for themselves and any other additional tests requested from the donor, as well as any travel costs associated with donation, shipping cost associated with donation, unless otherwise agreed upon with the donor.
  5. Requests for all payments that will be made or offered in exchange for sperm, eggs, or embryos, surrogacy including expenses incurred for travel, medical tests, or shipping. Receipts for all these payments must be provided to the Recipient upon request, or as agreed in writing between Donor and Recipient prior to incurring the expense.
  6. Donors will respect at all times the stated preferences of the recipients, specifically regarding method of donation. If a recipient is only looking for Artificial Insemination, the Donor will not push “NI” or any form of sexual contact with the recipient. Donors who are only offering NI (including “partial NI”) will not contact Recipients only looking for AI.
  7. Members may not state or imply that sex (NI, PI, etc,) is a more effective method of conception than artificial insemination (AI). Science has not shown this to be true, and doing so is seen solely as an attempt to manipulate someone into sexual contact.
  8. Members are strongly encouraged to insist on specific and detailed contracts that define the nature of the future relationship between donor, recipient, and donor-conceived child.

Journalists and Members of the Media

  1. Notification is required: status as a journalist or media group must be clearly defined on the profile.
  2. Casting Call: A detailed Casting Call must be submitted through the Directory immediately upon joining the site that contains the premise for your participation in the site, what you intend to do with any information, and contact information.
  3. Disclosure: Any discussion with any user of GoKidu must begin with the disclosure of your status as a journalist or member of the media.
  4. User Permission: Information gathered on GoKidu may not be used without the express permission of the user.
  5. GoKidu content permission: GoKidu site graphics, screenshots, or content of any kind may not be reproduced in any way without the express written consent of the GoKidu administrator, Beth Gardner. Permission may be requested via the Contact Us form.

**Canadian Residents: Under the Canadian Food and Drugs Act, semen donated by someone other than a spouse or sexual partner is regulated as a drug in Canada and its distribution and import must comply with the Food and Drugs Act and Semen Regulations. (see subsections 4(1) and 9(1) at http://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/regulations/SOR-96-254/index.html)

GoKidu reserves the right to suspend or remove the accounts or content of any user at any time for any reason, including breach of these Terms of Use or as required by any federal or state legal authority. If your account is removed you cannot subsequently set up a new account.

This Terms of Use and Code of Conduct may change and evolve with time based on constructive feedback and experience. It is our hope that these policies will foster helpful, honest, and civil interaction. It is the users' responsibility to check this page for updates.